wearing see-thru suffering part 8 5/2/17

so that when you are suffering,

and that can be from many styles of how that is happening,  

which are taken to be exterior experience

because it has been cognized as such.

when this has been done,

it falls into a dualistic paradigm premise

of suffering/non-suffering.

and when the suffering goes on as untenable,

it then be construed as a state of being.

so when one is being accosted by someone, by verbiage

or brutality, they of themselves are actually ventilating

their own untenable suffering on you.

but what they are really unconsciously doing,

even though they are accosting another is,

they are asking another though unconsciously doing so,

“can you take on the riddle of my suffering

and solve it for me”.

and why they chose you maybe circumstantial

in that it is set off but it also maybe somewhat vibrational 

in that they sense that you are on that polarity axis also

but not at affect of it or so it seems to them

that that may be so.

so they can, by whatever means incite-fully ask,

“can you actually contribute to freeing me

from my suffering (?)”,

but I don’t know that I am asking you for that

but I, in my struggles, am solicitous.

and since we all come from a profound paradigm

of insolation, isolation and separation,

so we then use language in that way

that continues to honor our distance from each other

as if it were true.